subject: Improve Your Marriage by Mastering These 2 Concepts [print this page] Improve your marriage is what you are hoping, wishing and praying to do but finding the right way to improve your marriage is a little challenging right?
I have been in your shoes and know that marriage is a work in progress but definitely worth the time and effort. If you are having marital problems or have a good marriage but want to make it great then you are 10 steps ahead of most couples who simply do nothing and either end up divorced or miserable for life.
I'm glad that won't be your case because you want to and will improve your marriage.
So here are a few concepts on how to improve your marriage. At the end of the article you can click on the Saving Your Marriage Today link and get more details on improving your marriage.
Learn to Appreciate Your Spouse
It's very easy to find faults with your spouse and as time goes by those shortcomings will be more obvious and annoying. Complaining about little unimportant things won't help you improve your marriage.
I once heard of a young lady complaining endlessly about how her husband would leave hair in the shower or forget to put the toilet seat down. An older lady gently noted how she wished her deceased husband was still around to clean up after.
The young ladies perspective was changed and she began to look for ways to improve her marriage instead of ways to rip her husband apart.
Change Yourself and Not Your Spouse
If you really want to improve your marriage you might want to consider changing some of your ways and not your spouse. I'm sure you feel like if your spouse would just listen to you and follow your instructions your marriage would be great and life would be good.
Sure you could be happier but your spouse could be miserable and instead of improving your marriage your marriage might need a little rescuing.
My suggestion would be that you invest some time and energy in transforming yourself to make your marriage better. See if you can improve on any of the following areas;
Communication - How you talk to your spouse i.e., tone, sarcasm, looks or willingness to be open and honest.
Intimacy - Have you been as romantic, spontaneous and loving as you can be or used to be? Improve your marriage by being the irresistible love bug you were when you first met.
As I mentioned above you can visit here to learn more about how to improve your marriage.
If you want to improve your marriage and make it great and fun instead of frustrating and a pain in the you know what see here; Saving Your Marriage Today
Improve Your Marriage by Mastering These 2 Concepts
