subject: Surviving a Cheating Wife [print this page] Surviving a cheating wife when your pride and ego and self esteem have just been blown up and shredded to pieces is tough. You are torn between leaving, kicking her out or trying to repair your broken marriage.
I'm sorry you are feeling the pain man because there is very little to compare with surviving a cheating wife. If men could experience giving birth I bet they would equate the two pains.
When you think back on your dating days or wedding day it's hard to believe how far your marriage has fallen. What the heck happened to the love and cherish to death do you part?
Well obviously those days are gone and marriage has gone from blissful to dealing with surviving a cheating wife. Can you make it is one of the issues you are wrestling with right?
I mean how can you ever love her the same way after her infidelity? She has broken your trust, lost your respect and driven a wedge between you. Well, let me just say that if you want to you can survive a cheating wife and do so without losing your dignity and manhood.
Here's how surviving a cheating wife is possible;
Give Your Wife A Chance
Ok, your wife has obviously blown it and there isn't much worse that she could have done right. Now, it's up to you how and if you save your marriage. You need to deal with all of your issues at some point but initially it might be helpful if your wife knows that you would like to try and give your marriage a second chance.
Let her know that you aren't sure how things will turn out but you want to try and see if things can be worked out.
Her reaction and how she acts thereafter will give you a good indication of her commitment to save your marriage.
Keep it in the Family
Although surviving a cheating wife might require you to confide in family and friends try to limit the folks you are sharing intimate details about the affair with. There is added pressure when others are aware of indiscretions in a marriage and pride, ego, anger and peace are unduly influenced when others are aware.
Learn to Forgive Her
I say learn how to truly forgive your cheating wife and surviving her infidelity will be very much possible.
Truly forgiving means after you have worked through all of the junk not holding it over her head. You must be able to love her better than you did before the affair. Intimacy, communication, and emotional support cannot be lacking on your part, if surviving cheating by your wife is your heart's desire.
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