subject: Winning Back an Ex - 5 Killer Strategies! [print this page] Winning back an ex can be an easy process if you are aware that there are certain steps that you can take. So many couples get back together all the time so please be positive.
OK, so lets get straight into the steps that you need to follow.
1. Be patient. This is something that you must do. It could take time to win him back. If you are impatient with this process then you are going to go right back to square one. If you are impatient with him you could come across as being needy, desperate, smothering.
2. Be confident. There is nothing more appealing to a guy then seeing a girl who has confidence, a girl who knows what she wants and doesn't let other people dictate how her life is. Show your ex that you are happy and strong enough to move on without him.
3. Minimise contact with him. Or if you prefer, completely stop all contact. I know you probably want to talk to him all the time because you miss him but it is vital that you do not do this. The key to winning back an ex is to give him space. Honestly, if and when your ex wants to call he will.
4. Look good. The best way to get his attention is to change your appearance. Maybe change your hair style or colour, buy new clothes. He will definitely notice and he may start worrying in case you've met somebody else!
5. Analyse your relationship. This might be hard for you but you need to take a look at the relationship before it ended. Was it strained? Were you fighting a lot? Did he seem unhappy? If you answered yes to these questions then figure out why and work on this.
