subject: How To Get Her To Be Sexier Behind Closed Doors [print this page] By Otto Collins By Otto Collins
"Don't get me wrong," Kenneth confides to his close friend, "I love my wife, but I wish she'd try to be a little sexier."
While Kenneth appreciates the fact that his wife runs their household, drives their kids all over town to school and soccer practice and holds down a full-time job, he wants her to be more adventurous in the bedroom.
It seems that when they are finally alone, all his wife wants to do is sleep, have time to herself or maybe cuddle up with him.
Does it seem like the sexy-ness factor has evaporated from your relationship? Maybe you'd like to try some ideas that could help spice things up again, but you're worried that your woman may be unwilling.
Countless men in long-term, committed relationships would like to amp up their sex lives, but they aren't sure how.
It might seem as if your partner is the one who wants to keep intimacy stuck and dull-- the way that it is. If you look at your relationship as a whole, however, you might find that there are more pieces to this puzzle than you otherwise recognized.
For example, sometimes the woman might want to be more adventurous when it comes to intimacy, but there are dynamics in the relationship that have created distance. As a result, the woman may mainly feel disappointed or irritated-- this is a passion-killer every time.
Even if there are few disconnecting tendencies in a relationship, many times the man doesn't know how to effectively communicate exactly what he'd like her to try. If he doesn't tell her (or maybe even know for himself) what sexy looks like to him, how can she be sexier in that way?
