subject: A Date With Your Wife After Your Cheating - Will It Work? [print this page] It can be very uncomfortable if you go out with your wife after being caught having an affair with another woman. Although it happened several months or years ago, the memory of being cheated on will always linger in your wife's heart and mind. So going out with you will somehow give her the chills and discomfort.
Here are a few ground rules you might want to remember to make your second chance at dating your wife after you cheated on her a little less of a bumpy ride.
Give her honest praises and admiration. Be grateful every time she compliments you of something, and you must do the same to her as well. She may not seem to appreciate that but she surely will deep inside. Every good word and appreciation counts no matter how small or big it is. Appreciation helps boast a person's confidence, so to speak.
2)Show appreciation for the little things she does for you. Many times women feel taken for granted or that their efforts are overlooked, dismissed, or completely ignored. Don't let this happen to your wife (or ex wife as the case may be). Acknowledge her efforts and thank her for them.
Look into her eyes while she's telling you how excited she is about something. Sitting next to her without saying anything will make her feel you're not interested on her at all.
Show her that you really are still the man she fell in love with the first time around and help her fall in love with you all over again. Remember that just because there is a lot of history between the two of you and that she loves you deeply doesn't mean she's still "in love" with you. There is a difference and she needs to fall in love all over again in order to fully forgive you for cheating on her.
