subject: Ever Wonder Why Some Guys Are Luckier Than You In Attracting Women [print this page] Guess what? You are just another uninteresting guy in her eyes. Check out what mistakes you may have made that blow your chances with women.
(1)Lacking confidence
The worst question a man can ask is Do you like me? You show her you are lacking confidence which hurts attractiveness. Do not ask this question. Proceed as if she likes you and you will soon find out the truth.
(2)Acting desperate
After going out with her once, you want to go out with her again. But she never returns your calls or SMS. So you keep calling her or sending her SMS a few times. This is a big mistake and shows that you are quite desperate. So if she does not return your message, just move forward as if nothing ever happen. However if you are still keen on her, you can once in a week, just send her a short, casual hello or keeping touch note by email or SMS. She may or may not come back to you. But in the meantime, go out and meet other girls. Do not forego the whole forest just only for one particular tree!
(3)Behave as if you do not have a mind of your own
Women love men who can take control, so do not keep asking them what they want to do.
(4)Treating her like a sex object
Every woman knows what a man is going after her for. However if you bring the topic of sex too early, you will blow your chances with her. She feels insulted and will be wondering if you are only interested in her body.
(5)Trying too hard to please and impress her
Women love compliments. But giving too much and too early may give her the impression you are too desperate or just trying to get into her pants. Also by trying to impress her with your nice car and big house may make her feel that besides these you have nothing more to offer.
(6)Being possessive too soon
Give her some space/time with her friends and other personal activities. Do not keep calling, texting her a few times if she is not able to respond to you immediately. You will soon drive her away from you if you do this because this will make her feel suffocated.
(7)Not able to let go off your past relationships
Women will avoid you if you keep telling her how wonderful your ex is, how upset you are when she dumped you, about your unhappy past relationships and how relieve you are now that you finally get rid of your ex. Women do not want to hear too much of your exs and your harping too much of the past can hurt the current relationship you are trying to develop.
