subject: How to Seduce a Woman When She Plays Hard to Get With You [print this page] Every guy has had the experience of having a woman play hard to get with him. It's funny, it ends up being an exciting and frustrating combination all at the same time. The trick when a woman plays hard to get with you is, you cannot let it affect you. Now, I know that this is easier said than done. When you think you are moving in the right direction with a woman and then she kind of turns the tables on you, that can be a tough one to handle.
If you let it get to you, though, you will more than likely end up losing the chance to get with her. That's just the way the game works, and you have to know that if you want to be successful at seducing a woman.
Here are some tips on how to seduce a woman when she plays hard to get with you:
1. Turn the tables on HER, and become hard for her to get.
This is counter intuitive to what most men would do. Most guys, when a woman pulls away, the instinct is to push harder on her. Well, do that, and you will end up with nothing but a sore hand, if you know what I mean. Seriously, you really cannot sweat it, and you have to be able to turn the tables on her, and make her feel like YOU are the one that is hard to get. She will respond by pursuing YOU, which should be a welcome change of pace.
2. Keep your options open with other women.
One of the most common reasons why it gets to be so frustrating for a guy when a woman plays hard to get, is because she is their ONLY option. Of course, you are going to end up feeling frenzied if the one woman that you have available starts to play games with you. On the other hand, if you have a bunch of options lined up, then it really is no sweat off of your back, now is it?
3. Understand that women like to test guys, it's just the way it goes, so have FUN with it.
One of the things that I like to do when a woman starts to put on that "hard to get" act, is to call her out on it. Of course, I do this in a fun and playful spirit, I don't call them out in anger or anything like that. It's funny though, when you say something like, "Look at you, trying hard to play hard to get." Laugh and she will end up laughing with you, or make a mock protest about how that is not what she is doing. Point is, have fun with it and don't let it stress you out.
How to Seduce a Woman When She Plays Hard to Get With You
