subject: How to Meet Single Women - The 3 Best Ways to Meet Women [print this page] When yu get right dwn t it, there are nly tw dating skills that really matter t guys: 1) Meet Wmen, 2) Keep wmen.
If yu can just apprach and meet wmen, yu've gt a big part f the game handled. After that, it's hw t keep wmen interested in yu and attracted t yu. Because yu must remember that if yu're nt ging t keep yur wman happy, smene else is waiting n the sidelines t give it a sht.
S here are three f the best ways I have used t meet wmen. And any guy can d them.
3 WAYS T MEET WMEN...
1) Meet Wmen in Bars & Clubs.
Hey, this ne wrks just great fr sme guys. I say "sme" guys because the truth is that if yu're lking fr a girlfriend it's highly unlikely yu're ging t meet her in a bar. Bars are fr quick hkups. It's the territry f the "pickup artist" and the slick players. And the reality is that mst wmen dn't g t clubs t meet guys. (At least, that's nt their primary reasn fr ging t bars.)
Wmen g t bars t have FUN. And... maybe meet sme guys.
Let's face it: Bars are crwded, lud, bnxius, and verpriced. They take a lt mre skill because f the cmpetitin. And the reality is that yu're prbably nt ging t meet wmen that want a steady relatinship. But they are a great place t meet single wmen in ne cncentrated envirnment. It's like the superstre fr meeting wmen.
2) Meet Wmen in Yur Scial Netwrk
The reality is that mst peple want t meet peple wh are friends f their friends. Wmen like t meet guys that they feel are "safe," and when yu're a friend f ne f her friends, yu're already lcked in as a prven cmmdity.
First f all, seize yur pprtunities.
Yu need t g t any and all parties that yur friends invite yu t. Make sure yu meet up with them fr happy hur, r just t hang ut n the weekends. Inevitably wmen will cme alng with their friends just n the CHANCE they can meet a cl guy.
(They wn't tell yu this, but it's true...)
Even better is t line up a cuple parties t hit n the same night s that yu can find the ne with the best pprtunities fr yu. Always give yurself ptins. Make it a pint t meet wmen in yur scial netwrk, because that's hw wmen feel mst cmfrtable meeting guys.
3) Meet Wmen nline
I knw this ne is ging t meet with a lt f cntrversy, but it can be the best methd f the bunch. If yu're nt already using an nline dating service, like Match.cm r smething similar, yu're missing ut n the easiest methd t meet wmen ever invented.
First ff it's cnvenient. Yu can actually sit at hme and meet wmen frm the cmfrt f yur living rm. Yu can search fr wmen with the same interests as yu, with all the features yu prefer. Yu can als schedule yur meetings with the wmen yu find interesting all in a rw. I used t stack up as many as six meetings in a single Sunday afternn. I culd meet wmen fr mrning tea and be hme in time fr the game. But here's where mst guys g wrng when they try t meet wmen nline: They assume that wmen will just jump n any pprtunity t meet them.
The harsh truth is that yu still need t prve yur value enugh t get a wman t vercme her natural fear f strangers t meet yu fr drinks. And there is a bit f a system t helping a wman thrugh the prcess f respnding t yur intrductin, fllwing thrugh with a phne call, and then agreeing t meet up with yu. As a result, mst guys quit their nline dating service within 3 mnths. They'll prbably g back t try it again at a later date, but withut mre understanding f what wmen are lking fr and what the prtcl is fr nline dating, they'll prbably quit again and again.
Here are a cuple tips fr when yu meet wmen nline that will help yu vercme these issues:
- Remember her first cncern: SAFETY.
A wman needs t feel safe. After all, yu're a great guy, right? YU knw that, but she's still hearing her friends tell her the mst utrageus hrrr stries abut the lsers they encuntered. The first time yu talk n the phne, make it a fun cnversatin. N heavy stuff. And dn't even suggest yu meet her yet. Just get her wanting mre. Then end the call at a high pint. Call her a day later and suggest a meet fr sme cffee r tea fr 30 minutes t "see if anything clicks." The mre casual yu make this sund, the less anxiety yu stir int the mix.
- Remember that a wman is nt expecting nline dating is a shrt-cut t intimacy.
Sme guys assume that if a wman is using an nline dating service, that she's just ready t blw right past all the frmalities and small talk. It's actually the ppsite. She needs t be reassured that yu're cl, safe, and fun - and nt sme psych. Hey, she's already sensitive that using an nline dating service culd imply she's lwering her standards - r desperate herself. S yu have t be cl and calm and make it easy fr her t enjy the prcess.
Take yur time and play the rle f the reluctant suitr. The less yu cme acrss as needy and desperate, the better yu will appear - and the mre yu will stand ut frm the pack.
As yu can see, there are many ways t meet wmen, and yu need t use them all. I have a philsphy fr guys that I call "multiple streams f female incme." What this means is that yu need t use several different methds t meet wmen s that: 1) Yu dn't make ne methd t imprtant and feel t heavy and serius with expectatins, and 2) Yu have backup ptins in case ne methd isn't wrking fr yu.
It's all abut prtecting yur attitude and yur cnfidence when yu're ut there trying t meet wmen. Use all the pprtunities and resurces available t yu t date mre effectively.
How to Meet Single Women - The 3 Best Ways to Meet Women
