subject: Winning Back His Cheating Heart – How to Save Your Marriage After he Cheats [print this page] Your husband has cheated on youYour husband has cheated on you. Now that the deed is done and the word is out you aren't worried about revenge but winning back his cheating heart instead. All you want to know is how to save your marriage after he cheats and how to make sure he doesn't do it again.
Good for you!
At least you know what you want and where you want to go from here. Believe it or not, for many women, that is the most difficult part of the process. Now that you know what you want, the rest really is gravy.
Now that you know what you want, how do you go about getting it?
Your wait is over. You can stop wondering how to save your marriage and get busy getting to work doing it. The first thing you need to do is get his attention.
The good thing about marriages, when you're trying to save them, is that there are plenty of reasons and excuses to talk to your husband. Even if you're moving towards divorce there are all kinds of details to hammer out in an effort to really make things work.
You may have said a lot of crazy, hurtful, and even completely outrageous things to one another in the aftermath of discovering your husband's cheating. That doesn't mean that either of you have stopped loving the other. The fact that he still loves you will make his heart receptive to what you have to say even when his head is telling him to keep moving and cover his ears.
Want to know how to really get his attention?
Apologize to Him
You better believe this works. But if you want to get even more bang for your buck, sit down and write out a nice apology letter to him.
Be brief. Be specific. And be thorough. Apologize for the things you've done that may have contributed to his unhappiness at home.
Don't make promises you can't keep. Don't bargain or beg. Just offer a sincere apology and leave your message at that.
Don't hand him the letter. Put the letter in the mail and then wait. Let him come to you after he's had a chance to absorb what the letter has to say and what it means to him.
Waiting is the hardest part but it can also be the most rewarding. Don't push him into running away. Give him the time and space he needs to realize how good he really does have it with you and, winner-winner chicken dinner; you'll have him back before he knows what's hit him.
Winning Back His Cheating Heart How to Save Your Marriage After he Cheats
