subject: Is there a Secret to Getting Your Wife to Forgive You for Cheating? [print this page] Do you want your wife to forgive you for cheating? There is no super secret one size fits all solution that will work every time but there are a few super secret tips that are sure to butter her up for the process. Keep these things in mind and it will make it much easier for your wife to forgive you for cheating on her.
1) Turn up the old charm. You won her over all those years ago. How did you do it? You might need to air your charm out a bit to get the smell of moth balls out but it will pay off for you in the end. She fell in love with your charm and whit. Remind her of all the reasons she fell for you in the first place and she'll have a hard time staying angry for too terribly long.
2) Put her in first place for a while. Stop rushing home to take over the television set and instead talk to her while she cooks dinner. Get up a few minutes early in the morning so you can have a conversation together with your cup of coffee. Leave the video games off for a weekend and do something fun as a couple something you both can appreciate and not the king crusher monster truck and tractor pull (unless of course your wife is really into that sort of thing). Make her feel important to you for a while and don't turn that off when you think you've won her over once again.
3) Talk to her. Have real conversations with your wife about what's going on in your marriage, what you'd like to see happen, and what you believe it will take from each of you to achieve those things. Ask for her input and start making plans for a future together. It's hard to hold on to old grudges when you're both looking ahead of you instead of behind. She will find it much easier to offer forgiveness when her focus is directed to the future and not what you've done in the past.
4) Take her on a date. How long has it been since the two of you went on a date together? No kids. No double dates. No friends tagging along. Just a night out for the two of you? How about a weekend away? Isn't it about time you took a little time for the two of you to be alone together and work on rebuilding your relationship? Give it a try and see how fast she begins to thaw.
Is there a Secret to Getting Your Wife to Forgive You for Cheating?
