subject: What If I Can't Forgive My Cheating Wife? [print this page] Are you in a situation where in you caught your wife cheating on you? How difficult it is to be experiencing this kind of joke but it's already there. When you look at her, everything goes crazy. "Why is it so hard to forget my wife's cheating?" you ask yourself.
Statistics show that almost 60% of the respondents admit that they've cheated on their partners. The most shocking reality is that women cheaters make up nearly have of them.
Cheating has, somewhere along the line, become much more culturally acceptable now than at any other time in our history. At the same time, women are finding more and more "opportunities" to cheat than ever before. Most of the time, cheating is a result of opportunity or getting caught up in the moment than anything else.
Women who are working are exposed to different kinds of people, inside and outside their workplace. They meet new friends and develop relationships with their colleagues and even bosses and sometimes become much closer to each other.
It's possible for a woman to lighten up when at work because there are many prospective men around her.
Difficulty in Forgiving her for Betraying you
Because you view it as a betrayal of you more than anything else and the one thing you expect from your wife, without question, is loyalty. The fact that she cheated is, in your eyes, a sign that she isn't loyal to you.
Can you forgive your wife on her cheating and continue with your lives as if nothing happened? Of course not! It's the most difficult thing to do even if you love her with all your heart. Being betrayed by someone you love so much is like drowning in the sea of darkness.
It is only you who can determine that question. If struggling to forgive your wife eats your whole being, then you probably are still thinking of straightening up your marriage.
Here are a few things you need to consider.
She didn't cheat because she doesn't love you. Chances are she still loves you very much. Find out how she feels before you invest any time in convincing yourself to forgive and forget.
She never promised to be perfect. That doesn't mean that you didn't think she was or expect her to be. The truth of the matter is that living up to those types of expectations can be mentally, physically, and spiritually exhausting for your wife. In other words, she may have had weakened defenses to another man by sheer exhaustion alone.
She's still the same woman she was before you found out she was cheating. You loved that woman deeply. Remember all the reasons why you love her and you may find that there is plenty of good in her to warrant your forgiveness.
