subject: How To Attract A Woman - Find Out What You Need To Make Her Want You [print this page] Attracting a woman can make any guy start to question all that he thinks he knows about dating. When you meet a woman and you think that there is just something about her that makes you really want her, suddenly she is all that you think about. Problem is, when you allow yourself to get this attached of the idea of her, you usually lose sight of the reality and make her out to be a lot more "precious" than she really is.
That's not to say that she is not special, it's just a reminder that it is very easy to look through rose colored glasses and think that a woman is on some level of purity and perfection that you can never hope to be. And that line of thinking will make you think of her as being... untouchable.
Do you see the problem in this?
How can you as a mere mortal ever hope to land a woman like that?
Well, you need to realize that she is on the same level as you are! Don't let yourself get caught up in making a woman seem to be out of your league, especially just because you find her attractive. It's surprising how many men will hear this at some point in their lives and STILL make the mistake of thinking that a woman is somehow "beyond" their reach.
YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO SEE YOURSELF AS BEING EQUAL TO HER...
Putting a woman up on the proverbial pedestal is a recipe for disaster if you want to attract her. For one, you will always feel like you have to be doing things to please her and win her approval. And also, she will NEVER be able to live up to the fantasy of her that you begin to create.
If you want to make her want you, then you have to have the confidence and the self awareness to realize that you are deserving of attracting any woman that you want to. There really should be no woman that you consider to be out of your league.
TO ATTRACT A WOMAN, YOU NEED TO BE ABLE TO CONNECT WITH HER...
It's also really hard to connect with a woman when you think of her as being "above" you. You will get nervous when she is around, you will always be looking for the right things to say to her, and all in all, you will end up messing it somewhere along the way. Just make the connection and it will be a lot easier to go from there.
