subject: Done but not forgotten [print this page] Its not the end of the worldIts not the end of the world. Don't tell your self that he/she was the one. They obviouslyweren't. The emotions that must be going through your head right now must seem unbearable. I know, I've been there more times than I care to mention, but there is hope for you yet.
First things first, you need to get over him/her. Nothing gets accomplished by moping around all daywonderingwhat could of been. Depending on why you broke up you might feel either like its your fault or that you have no idea where it went wrong. The simple fact of the matter is that your the one thats reading this which obviously means your the one that got hurt out of the whole thing. Your the one that cared not them and the fact that you searched this article up means that your the victim of the relationship. You must take into consideration that the first rule to life is that people are naturally stupid and that your partner did not deserve to have you. Yes you might of had good times but did you really? Your partner wants you to be weak right now, he/she wanted to hurt you and are you going to let them? No you are not. Where will they be in 10 years? Your partner with some looser girlfriend/boyfriend trying to make ends meet and you? Well you will be the one that forgets first, you will be the one that has the strength to pick yourself up and carry on through life with a big grin on your face and when that X of yours comes crying back to you after seeing how much of a man/womanyou'vebecome you remind him/her why you broke up. You dont need them in your life, X's are like old razors; they seem great at first but after they prove that they're worth nothing to you do you really want to keep them around after? I hope not. I know you might think that he/she was the one but they're most likely not. 6 billion people are on this earth and of that 6 Billion your looking for one. Do you really think that "the one" is living within 5 miles of you? Let's be reasonable. You need to get back out there and lift this dark cloud from over your head. After all do you think he/she feels this way about you? Probably not and let me tell you I'm sorry that your the one that cared about him/her. To find a caring partner is unbelievably hard to find these days and your X blew his/her chance to be with a person like you. You aretrulygenuine. If break-ups hurt you because thats an obvious sign of a big heart of which your X did not deserve. His/her reasons for the break-up were most likely completely blown out of proportion. They don't deserve you so stop reading this pick yourself up and get back out there!
