subject: If A Guy Doesn't Call You Back – The Best Move You Can Make in This Situation [print this page] If a guy doesn't call you back what does it mean? You've tried to find the answer to this question yourself, haven't you? Most women have at some point. It's terribly confusing to be moving forward in a relationship with a great guy and then suddenly he just doesn't call you back. Does it mean he's moved on and you should too? Is he just really busy or is this a sign that he's so taken with you that he feels overwhelmed by the idea of hearing your voice? As much as I know you wish the latter was the real reason, it's not. Men generally don't call you back for one simple reason and it's probably not what you think.
Your initial assumption if a guy doesn't call you back is that he's completely lost interest in you. It's understandable why you'd believe that. After all, if he truly wanted to be with you, he'd at least pick up the phone and call, right? It's not that simple. Men don't place the same value on things like phone calls, text messages or emails as women do. They don't anxiously await them or plan exactly what they'll say to you. Men see these as tools. If he feels the undeniable urge to talk with you, he'll call. Otherwise he's not even thinking about it.
If you two agreed that he'd call and it's past the promised time you're going to feel inclined to call him. You may be concerned that something horrible has happened to him or perhaps you're just worried that he's met someone new. Either way you want to talk to him and find out what stood in the way of him making the call. Stop right there! Whatever you do, do not call him. It's the worst possible thing you can do right now.
When a woman calls a man after he's promised to do the calling, she's sending him a very loud and clear message about herself. She may as well wear a t-shirt that says, "I'm stalking you." If you call him when he said he'd call you, you're waving the flag of desperation. He'll see you as someone who is not only hopeless but impatient too.
The best move you can make if a man doesn't call you back is focus on your life and not on him. Men often don't call just to see how a woman will handle it. If she acts like it doesn't matter at all to her, he'll get back on track trying to win her over. Stay strong and whatever you do, resist the urge to call him. It won't take long until your phone rings and it's him wondering how you've been and asking when he can see you again.
If A Guy Doesn't Call You Back The Best Move You Can Make in This Situation
