subject: My Husband Looks at Other Women – How to Make This a Non-Issue in Your Marriage [print this page] "My husband looks at other women and I hate it." You've said it. Most of us, who are married, have at some point. What is it about men? Why do they always have to turn their heads to look at a pretty woman as she walks by? Do they not understand how it makes us feel inside? They actually don't. This is a problem that has plagued marriages since the beginning of time. You may be surprised that your reaction to this will actually dictate whether your husband continues to do it or not. The ball is in your court on this one so you need to learn how to play it properly.
Generally, when a woman says, "my husband looks at other women," there's some jealousy attached to it. It's understandable. You're married to the man. You're the one devoting so much of your life to him so how is it fair if he's staring at other women? It's not. But sometimes in life it's all about how to make lemonade out of lemons. That's what you're about to learn.
You've likely heard this before but men do find self confidence incredibly attractive in a woman. If a woman loves herself there's no stopping her. She doesn't care who anyone else is looking at. For her, it's all about her and the fact that she knows she's amazing. That's the attitude about yourself that you need to adopt now. You have to be able to look in the mirror and see the drop dead beauty that's staring back at you. You have to know that you're worth it and that any man would be incredibly fortunate to be married to you.
Now that you've given yourself a pep talk and you feel confident and secure in who you are as a woman, it's on to the next step of our plan. The very next time you and your husband are out and he starts checking out other women, you have to pipe up. No more sitting idly by letting the jealousy eat you alive inside. Instead, you're going to take a much more proactive approach. You're going to comment on her. Take a good look at who he is looking at. In all your infinite female wisdom choose one thing about her that is obviously attractive. Then comment on it. It may sound something like, "wow, she's got beautiful hair," or "I love those boots she's wearing." Something small and insignificant should be your focus.
His reaction will be priceless. He'll smile at you and look a bit confused. Do it again when you catch him looking at someone else. After you do this a few times he's going to notice the other woman in the room less and you more for one simple reason. Your self confidence is going to be the most alluring thing to him. He'll find it utterly appealing and it will make you the most beautiful and desirable woman in the room.
My Husband Looks at Other Women How to Make This a Non-Issue in Your Marriage
