subject: Getting Him to Want You Again – Reverse Psychology Secrets to Win Your Ex Back [print this page] Every woman who wants to be back with an ex has wished for one thing. If there was a magic button in a man's brain that you could push that would make him see things clearly and help him to realize how much he needs you, life would be perfect, wouldn't it? It's not that way, unfortunately.
Relationships are ever evolving. What you and your ex boyfriend experienced when you first fell in love may never be again. That isn't to say that you can't fall hopelessly in love with one another again. The dynamic will be different now though. You're no longer just two strangers with a very strong attraction to each other. Your ex lovers who know everything there is to know about the other.
One of those things your boyfriend knows all too well is how you're going to react to the break up. He knows it's killing you inside and that's driving you to act out emotionally. He's actually counting on this reaction for one good reason. It validates what he believes inside. He thinks that you're prepared to put your life on hold until he comes back to you. That's an incredible ego boost to any man. That's what you're going to hone in on as you try to get him back using reverse psychology.
Whatever you think your ex boyfriend expects of you in the days and weeks following the split is what you need to focus on. You're going to do the exact opposite of that. If you think he's expecting you to chase him to get him back, you're not going to. If you believe he's waiting for you to call him over with a fake emergency just so you two can talk, you'll never make that call. You have to do what he's not expecting from you. That's how you're going to ensure you get him back.
The absolute best way to use reverse psychology to win your ex back is to ignore him for a time. That essentially suggests that you're done with the relationship and him. If you're not running after him trying to get him to reconsider the break up, it means you're moving forward without him. That's exactly how he'll see it, so do it.
Find your inner strength and walk away from your boyfriend for now. He'll react by wanting you back. It's the beauty of reverse psychology and it's the perfect way for you to win back the man you adore.
Getting Him to Want You Again Reverse Psychology Secrets to Win Your Ex Back
