subject: Unhappy Marriage Try These Tips [print this page] Take a survey and the results may surprise you. If the respondent were completely truthful we'd doubtless discover that one out of each 2 weddings is unhappy,or even all the time at least part of the time. Naturally,this would depend on the degree of happiness experienced. What's satisfied for one wedding could be considered unhappy for another. As unions mature, the meaning of contentment develops. When you were newlyweds you likely were content simply to be together and a romantic evening consisted of a fast dinner and off to the bedroom.
When newness fades and the body offers no new unexplored areas, it takes more to prompt contentment. The longer you are married the more other interests take the place of one another. One another used to be adequate but with the passage of time and circumstance it becomes harder to reach a quantity of satisfaction.
You mind is full of thoughts of kids, making the car payment or the in-laws coming over for dinner. What can be done to re-light the spark in your marriage? The sparks used for wedding ignition are diverse but if your want is to relive some of the romantic days of yesterday then you may try these on for size:. Remind yourselves how it used to be so you will remember what you are missing. Bring out old pictures to revisit past holidays and romantic getaways. While you're reminiscing, be certain "your song" is playing in the background, even if it is an old 45 r.p.m record. Debate how you felt then as compared to today. Give your other half a tiny present which claims I like you. A surprising present is both a pleasure to give and receive. You do not have to hang about for an important day, this is simply because you care for your partner and need to show it.
It's a technique to say thanks for just being there. A note may be just as suggestive as a present. Leave a romantic note occasionally in a spot that suits your other half's way of life. Where does she or he spend almost all of their time when at home? Kitchen? Bathroom? Some words of love are all that is mandatory. They do it in the films, why not in real life?
Have a pleasant food basket prepared and off you go to the park or spread a blanket on the floor. It is the astonishing oneness that is important. Take a walk together. This isn't a fast walk to get it over with but time to hold hands and realize how much you love one another. Don't dismiss these proposals thinking they would not work for you. Start with a shock morning kiss for your partner and watch the eyes light up.
