subject: Singles Dating And Letting Them Know Nicely That You Are No Longer Interested Anymore? [print this page] . Typically people that are considerate of others feelings will want to avoid confrontation, but just fading away from a relationship is not always the right way to handle letting someone down. If you avoid dealing with the situation you can leave that person hanging and that will only make things more difficult as no one is deserving of letting them hang out there and have no idea that the relationship is ending. Do the right thing by showing your date the respect that you would want if the tables were turned. By making the effort to handle your relationship breakup with a high level of professionalism and consideration will only make the hard times go easier.
Second- Always be honest with your partner. No doubt, when it is time to let your partner know that it is time to move on and you are no longer interested in pursuing a relationship further will make any honest caring person uncomfortable but there is no substitute for honesty. By not being upfront and honest will only drag the situation on further and then the discomfort when it finally does come to an end when be a lot worse if you wait.
Third- Be careful what and how you say it when breaking it off. When letting them know you no longer want to date, use what you know about that person in determining what and how you say it to them, for example sometimes a simple thanks for the nice time we had together but no thanks to any further dates will be better than a long winded explanation because you could end up saying something that could create confrontation between the two of you. Another thing to keep in mind is that the tone in your voice is also important, be calm and gentle again that will help keep the situation under control and keep the feelings in check. Getting defensive will only cause things to spin out of control and make things even worse. A good way to say it might be something like this, I really enjoyed meeting you and the time we spent together, and wish the best for you as I know that I am not the right person for you and I want you to find the one that is." Good Luck and Happy Online Personals Dating!
