subject: Don't Be A Loser - How To Win Back Your Exgirlfriend [print this page] Have you recently broken up with your girlfriend? Are you having a difficult time coping with the breakup and would do anything to win back your girlfriend?
When we have lost someone we care about, it normal to experience a range of emotions such as guilt, anger, despair, blame, frustration and regret. If you really want your girlfriend back, then it is time to get real with yourself without letting those negative feelings cloud your judgment.
What do you think caused the break up? Was it something you did, or didn't do?
Is it something that can be fixed? If so, fix it now! Apologize and mean it.
If you are lucky person this is all you need to do. It is likely, however, that you may need to do a lot more to win your love back.
If your relationship can't be repaired, you will need to accept that and move on. However, you can still let your ex know that you are truly sorry and would make things right if you could.
It is critical that you take care of yourself to help win back your girlfriend.
Make sure you haven't let your appearance slide since you first started dating. And make sure you haven't gone to pot since you broke up. Nothing says loser like some guy who hasn't showered or shaved in a week because of a break up. Or hasn't showed up for work. Or cleaned his apartment. Looking your best can only help make you feel good about yourself and your confidence will show. Women instinctively know this and often get a new hair style or buy new clothes after a break up. You want your exgirlfriend to remember how good you can look! Make sure your clothes are stylish, suit you and that you are well groomed. You are showing her and announcing to the world that things are normal and you are the person that attracted her to you in the first place. Not the sad sack guy dumped by his girlfriend. You want to be the guy that gets his exgirlfriend back!
The goal is not to cause your ex to become jealous or upset. This is not a game. Flirting or falsely trying to impress her will be counterproductive. What is most important is that she comes back to you because she truly wants to.
Be patient. She may give you signs that she wants to come back soon after the break up or it can take weeks, even months. During this time, you have a very important role to play - be her friend. This helps you to stay close and shows you have been making self-improvements. It will also help you to spot any "go" signals so you can start to win your girlfriend back.
