subject: Best Break Up Tips You need to Know for a Clean Break [print this page] Author: TW Jackson Author: TW Jackson
No one wants to be the one to hurt someone and these are some of the best break up tips you'll find that give you the tools you need to break up with integrity and as much fairness as possible. Breaking a heart will never be easy. But you can do it with a lot less acrimony if you follow these tips. Make Sure Your Ex isn't the Last to Know The only thing more devastating than a break up someone isn't expecting is to find out that everyone and their brothers new before the person being dumped. It adds insult to injury and isn't fair to either of you. Even worse? What if your "soon to be ex" hears all about it from someone else before hearing it from you. It can definitely make for an awkward conversation and I wouldn't be surprised if nine irons were involved. Don't go Back and Forth This is another thing that will do neither of you any favors. If you're going to end it; end it. Let there be no discussion or debate on the matter. You'll have time to rethink your decision later but for the time being it is best to make a clean break and than for both of you to take a little time to digest the repercussions. Avoid Long Explanations This is not the time for a lengthy explanation. Say what you need to say so that you both can get busy moving on. Drawing it out only gives you time to be talked into changing your mind, your ex time for tearful pleas, and too much time for things to be said that neither of you mean. Keep it as short as possible and be prepared for the onslaught to follow. Don't Kid Yourself Don't give yourself false hope that this is going to be easy. Rarely is it the case that the other person is comfortable with, much less happy about, your decision to call it quits. There is more than one heart on the line after all. Be prepared for words spoken in anger, tears, and a few insults hurled in your direction. Remember that it is hurt and anger talking and not the heart and soul of the person you once loved. It won't make it easy but it will help you find comfort too. It will never be easy to cause someone else pain but if you follow these "best break up tips" you'll be able to limit the pain to some degree and avoid making a tense situation even worse.About the Author:
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