subject: Get Your Ex Back - Is She Dating Someone Else? [print this page] Your heart plunged the minute that you heard your ex girlfriend had started to date someone else. Everything that you feared came to pass, and now, there is a new guy in the picture. Sure, she just started to date him, but will that be enough to make her move on for good and leave YOU in the dust? I have to admit, situations like this can be tricky. And there are times when I will advise a guy to just move on and forget about trying to get back with her. Yet, there are also times when it is not as bad as it might seem, and the opportunity to get her back is still there.
One of the things that you NEED to do whether or not you decide to pursue her or move on, is, you have to let the fact that she is dating someone else roll right over you. It cannot be something that causes you to lose it, or to get swelled up with jealousy. Because nothing good will come out of it if you do let that happen.
Here are some tips that can help if your ex girlfriend is dating someone else:
1. First of all, this should be a signal, a definite signal that your eyes should be scoped at other women.
I cannot tell you how counter productive it is for a guy to get tunnel vision and only see one woman as being a possibility. There are LOTS of women out there, so many, that you would not even have the time to date them all. Keep that in mind. Plus, if she is out there seeing and meeting new people and you are stuck at home feeling depressed, do you think that this is going to impress her? It won't. In all honesty, it will kind of make her look at you as being a guy that is not worth dating. Harsh? Maybe. True? You betcha.
2. Second, you need to really speed things up in your life.
Now is the time to get things moving in the right direction. Don't stay still and remain stagnant. You are not a puddle of water, you are a MAN. So, get your life headed in the direction that YOU want it to go. Take it as a sign that you are not on track, and use it to motivate you to get ON track. Women are severely attracted to men that are living out their lives and not sitting at home and doing nothing at all.
3. Third, you need to have a PLAN.
If you were serious about setting up a business, you would have a plan, right? And if you did not have one, would you be surprised when the business failed? Well, why not have a plan to get your girlfriend back. Having a system keeps you in check, it keeps you on track, and it can help you to work through those moments when you feel a bit doubtful. It can also reveal techniques that you never even thought of, and you never know when that will be the one that pulls things together and gets your girlfriend back!
