subject: It Is Never Too Late To Spice Up Your Marriage [print this page] Have you noticed in recent years that your marriage has become very dull and that there just is not very much or any excitement at all going on in your bedroom anymore? Well, it is not likely that you and your spouse are not the only ones who are suffering from complacency and falling into a comfortable arrangement that might not involve too much of a love life anymore. Couples usually never mean for this to happen, it is just that after a time others things take precedence like work or children or both.
More often than not these days, this kind of boring existence between a couple can lead to unfaithfulness and even divorce. Even when you still love each other so much, it is possible to go else where looking for that old spark you are missing when one partner refuses to rekindle the fire that was once between the two of you. Many times this end result is completely avoidable and unnecessary if both parties would only put a little more effort into maintaining their personal relationship as much as they concentrate on things like their kids and work life.
This kind of rekindling can be as simple as planning some special time for each other every so often. It might just be a once a month date that both of you decide that is important enough to not skip. Just like with a business of any kind, the heads of the departments have to have those special meetings in order to hold things together, make the company grow and be successful for the long haul. A marriage relationship is no different. If both partners are constantly moving in different directions and there are no meetings of the mind and bodies in this case, things stand a chance of growing apart and eventually perhaps falling apart.
Go away for a weekend. Send the kids away for the weekend. Cook a special dinner or by some new sexy lingerie. All of these things can help rekindle those embers that are probably still glowing if you just fan the flames a little. Before you know it you can find that those same feelings and desires are still alive and well. Negligence in a marriage is one of the leading causes of divorce because neither partner wants to end up feeling like they are no longer needed or desired. If you want a marriage to last for the long haul, you have to put in the work that it takes to makes it bloom and prosper instead of deflate or fizzle.
