subject: Get Her Back Do You Know That She Is Seeing Someone Already? [print this page] Are you doing everything in your power to get her back but it feels like youre talking to a brick wall half the time? Have you wondered why your wife or girlfriend wont talk to you and any attempt to discuss your relationship or the possibility of getting back together is met with resistance? There are actually two reasons for this phenomenon and one solution for both.
First, nobody likes to talk about unpleasant things. Nobody wants to talk about what went wrong in a relationship and at this stage of the game your ex is a dont wanter. She doesnt want to talk about the relationship because she doesnt want a relationship with you. In addition, every time you ask her to talk about things that went wrong you are pushing her further and further away and causing her to be more and more sure that she made the right decision by breaking up with you.
This may sound harsh but it is the reality. The good news is that there is a simple solution to this problem. Stop talking about the relationship! It may take a while before the annoyance that she feels every time you call, text, email or talk to her in person leaves but by promising yourself that you will never bring up the subject of your relationship, what went wrong and the possibility of the two of you getting back together again you will remove one of the biggest obstacles that is between you and your ex right now.
If you do talk to your ex keep the conversations short, light, fun, happy and end the conversation on a high note. Make whatever excuse is necessary to end the conversation on your terms and even though you would love to talk with her on and on for hours the way you used to, it is important that you be the one to end the conversation. This will leave her both wondering what is going on and leave her wanting even if she formerly didnt want to talk to you.
The second reality of why your ex might not be wanting to talk to you or consider the possibility of getting back together is that she might have already moved on or be in the process of starting a relationship with someone else. Even though most women dont want to appear that they bounce from one relationship to another, the truth is that they do.
Most women will at least have an idea of the next man that they want to start a relationship with before their first relationship is even over and some women use men to ease the emotional turmoil that goes along with a breakup even if they were the one to initiate the breakup.
Likewise, chances are that if your wife or girlfriend ended your relationship and she doesnt appear to be sincere or open to the possibility of working on the relationship there is probably another man that she has her eyes on to take your place. It could be a co-worker, a guy that she knows from a fitness club or similar hobby or it could even be one of your friends. Shocking as it may be to think that one of your own friends might scoop up your ex think about this for a moment. Is there anyone that your ex was particularly close to or a guy that she confided in that would be in the perfect spot to start spending time with your ex?
This is why it is important to get your act together and come up with a game plan to get your ex back as soon as possible. While it might not be possible to undo what has already been done if your ex has moved on with another guy it is entirely possible to get her back again.
