subject: Get Him Back Change His Mind In An Instant And Get Him Back [print this page] Are you trying to get him back by using logic and reason? Have you grown frustrated and feel at times that there is no hope of ever getting him back? Are you about to give up or have you given up numerous times only to go back on your word to yourself that you wont try to talk to him, contact him or see him?
All of these emotions and thoughts are quite typical, whether you know it or not. Sometimes breakups and linger on for weeks, months and even years where one partner wants to get back together and the other partner wants nothing to do with the relationship. Other times a couple can get back together in an instant and decide quite suddenly that they never want to be apart again and vow never to argue again. It is as if the separation causes them to realize how much they love each other and all hard feeling are quickly forgotten.
Do you wish that you could change your exs mind like that? Do you want for the pain to end as quickly as it began with a few words but instead of it being your boyfriend or husband saying that they dont love you anymore or that theyre breaking up with you it is a tearful welcome home as he holds you safely in his arms again?
One key point to keep in mind if you are hoping for a cheerful reunion where you get him back both suddenly and with a tremendous amount of positive emotion, is that the opposite of love is not hate. If you feel like youre talking to a stone wall at times or if he often becomes very angry when talking with you it is probably love that he is covering in his heart. Men can be very good at lying to themselves and chances are he doesnt even know what he is feeling these days for you. He might even tell you that he hates you or deny that he even loved you. Try not to listen and remember that the opposite of love is not hate. The opposite of love is apathy or feeling absolutely nothing.
So how do you get from point A to point B and create the environment necessary for you to get him back? Your first step should be to stop talking about the relationship or trying to consciously manipulate him into coming back to you. Any attempt to force the issue is going to be met by childlike resistance. Better to save your energy and your breath and instead focus on what you can do to get your man to at least be civil to you.
When you do see him make sure that you look your best in both physical and emotional appearance. While men are stimulate visually by women, and you are a woman, they are also drawn to women who are upbeat, friendly and positive. Talking about negative aspects of your life or appearing beat down is not attractive to anyone, especially your boyfriend or husband.
What usually happens or what can be created is a scenario where very quickly a connection is rebuilt with your man though flirting, joking, touching and finally a few reminders of times past that will make him remember what he once had. When you hit on the right combination of factors and push the right buttons watch out! Once a man realizes what he lost or is about to lose a flood of pent up emotions can come flooding back to him and it is not unusual for a guy to come to tears, begging and pleading for forgiveness as the love pours out of his heart.
