subject: Marriage Help For Women By Totify.co.uk [print this page] The sooner a bride realizes her husband does not think or act like she does the sooner she will be on the way to a happy and long lasting marriage. As a woman you probably think life could be so simple if he would just see things your way. But, you must strive to see things from his point of view as well because he probably thinks the same thing.
Men need their space but at the same time they need and even crave your attention. Its a fine line between providing a man his space and giving him attention. You give too much attention and he claims you are smothering him. You give him too little and you are accused of lack of interest. Its a wise woman indeed who can tell the difference.
Marriage is full of stress and things that have to be done. Managing a home and a husband should qualify you for any job you want. You both may work and that leaves less time for each other by the time housework is done and bills are paid. It you have children, its even harder.
Some men dont handle stress well and this can be misinterpreted as lack of interest in the wife. This is not necessarily so. Dont be shy in putting your cards on the table. You must communicate if problems are to be resolved. If you are seriously concerned about where your marriage is going, nip it in the bud by determining when the downslide began.
Has your lifestyle changed? Ask yourself if you drifted apart soon after the children came or you began volunteering three nights a week. Are you going out with the girls too much or having them over and invading his privacy? Dont make the mistake of comparing him with your friends husbands. Your husband may be humble but he likes to feel like the king of his castle.
One of womens main complaints is that the husband is not romantic anymore. Signs that this is a problem in the making are shorter conversations and only about things that must be discussed.
He refuses to talk about dreams or long range plans. If he does not call you on the phone like he used to, watch out. When the flirting is gone and the kisses get more perfunctory its time to take action.
Dont allow your husbands lack of interest in intimacy to grow. It could mean there is someone else but it could also mean that he thinks you no longer find him desirable. Most men love it when the wife is at times aggressive and becomes his lover instead of his wife.
Never forget how deeply you love your husband even if hes asked for a divorce. Its never too late to salvage a relationship. He cannot read your mind so tell him how you feel how much you love and need him. It may be just what hes waiting to hear.
