subject: My Wife's Cheating Is Softly Killing Me [print this page] Judge a book not only through its cover but with its content because there are books that are fabulous in the outside but fancy in the inside. In choosing a woman, you need to be keen and sharp. Choose a woman that is fabulous, inside and out; a woman that will surely make you proud not only for her looks but because she's trustworthy.
The truth is that as shocking as it may be, cheating does not make your wife a bad person. It might make her a bad wife but even then, not necessarily. Good and bad are always in the eye of the beholder but her doing one thing that is wrong or bad does not make her a bad person.
It's Not Mine
Nobody is perfect in this world. Even saints do have sins. You might consider your wife as a sinful human being but you can't judge her because she did wrong and stained your image as her husband. People might judge you as well, why she had an affair with another guy in the first place. Blaming her doesn't change the actuality; understand her instead.
It all comes down to that one fact: good people sometimes do bad things. They make mistakes. They have regrets. Your wife can still be a good person even though she cheated. Only you will be able to decide if that is good enough for you and to save your marriage.
Why is Your Wife Cheating on You?
Technically, love is not the only piece most wives are looking for. They need attention and genuine care from their husbands. Just like men, some women have affairs, too. In fact, the number of women cheating on their husbands has risen dramatically.
Now the kicker of all kickers is that she might not even know. At least, she might not know on the surface. It could take some serious digging to get down to the heart of the reason that she ultimately cheated. You can bet though that she didn't just wake up one morning and decide to risk her marriage on a whim. There's something going on inside of her that led her to that decision and that moment.
Have some quality time with her. Talk about your kids' future sometimes. Be honest with what you feel and lastly, try to consult a mirror. Are you hot? If not, go to the gym, build some muscles. Some women are easily bored in bedroom and will look for physical satisfaction through an affair.
Are you up for that particular challenge? Are you ready to make things right between the two of you? Or, do you think it's too late for the two of you?
