subject: Attractive Russian Women - How To Get Their Attention [print this page] What's the difference between a Russian woman and an American woman you meet in a local bar? The Eastern European woman is better looking, stays in shape after she has children and is less likely to reject you when you say helllo. She might be in your country for her job or to study, but regardless of why she is here her looks will attract attention anytime she goes out.
Just how is she different from women you are use to? Take a look at the profiles of any woman on this dating site and you will see comments such as 'I am looking for an honest, loving, generous, tender and attractive man'. Russian women want to be romanced and are brought up with the knight in shining armour ideals. This is what you are up against. Try and use the same pickup lines that work with typical girls and you will crash and burn fast.
Women are women all around the world and they all want to be pursued to some degree. Russian women just have loftier ideals when it comes to love. Getting her attention by by the charming, witty man she is looking for is eacy though. All you have to do is to be able to hold an interesting conversation when you first meet. If the prospect of talking to a stunning women makes you panic, then here are a few tips.
Remember To Listen
It is easy to start a conversation with a beautiful woman, just say hi if you don't know what else to say. But if you are going to have any chance at all of getting past that opening greeting, then you are going to have to know how to have an interesting conversation. The most important tip I can offer you here is to remember is that a conversation has 2 sides.
If you speak without listening, then you are lecturing.
If you speak and listen, but ignore the other side of the conversation, then you are arguing.
If you speak and listen with attention to what is being stated, then you are having a conversation.
The first two will get you nowhere when trying to meet women. Just remember that your ears outnumber your mouth 2:1. It is a useful thought to keep in mind if you continually crash and burn with women.
The point I am trying to explain is that a conversation has 2 sides. In an average day, a woman will talking twice as much as a man so don't feel compelled to do all of the talking. If a women shows that she is interested when you say hello (and not all women will - it is a numbers game), then maintain the conversation with open ended questions.
Ask Questions
What is an open ended question? It is a question that you can not answer with a simple yes or now and requires that you provide information back. Have you ever walked into a store and been asked 'would you like some help'? What do you normally say? Quite of often you just want to browse around first and not feel pressured, so you answer 'no'. Or if you feel embarrassed about such a short answer, you can say 'no thanks, I am just looking'. If it is only if you are REALLY interested and came in for something specific will you give a specific answer. The salesperson brought the conversation to an end by asking you a closed ended question.
Now what happens if they say "hi, welcome to xxxx we have some great specials on today, what are you looking for'? You can still shut down the conversation if you are not interested, but the opportunity for a bargain might mean you give a real answer back. You haven't said no which is the end of the sales process, so the salesperson is free to continue. The same rules apply in talking to a woman. Ask a question to show interest and keep the conversation flowing.
In the dating scene, this is called playing some verbal tennis. Every time she says something, add to it and then direct the conversation back to her with another question. It is called verbal tennis because a series of questions and answers are sent back and forwards between the participants. It takes practice to make this feel effortless, so put some effort into it with a friend. Sit down and start a game where you ask a question. The other person answers the question and then asks a related question. The first person who can't think of a question loses.
Now here is a little interesting bit. Own a company or a manager at work? This is also a great way to promote communication in the workplace. Not only can you use it to create a better workplace, but you can take part in your own team building exercise to improve your dating game.
