subject: Problems Of The Heart: The Risks Of Loving Someone [print this page] Some people are more idealistic than othersSome people are more idealistic than others. They have a vision in mind as they want their partner to be ideal and they do not compromise. In life, you end up with partners that do not fulfill the original criteria. Maybe not a complete picture, or perhaps not exactly the Prince Charming. But in the end, however, you choose that person. Why is it so? Because we changed the criteria. Living long enough, we can see different people. And we can begin to change the basis for what we want to partner with these circuit characteristics are important, mentally and scrape off those who do not. So if a person has a list of rigid, uncompromising features that are following the point where you can just kick your partner, who was right for them.
Sometimes you may find that even if you're willing to commit, your partner does not want to solve. They may be looking for the ideal person who can satisfy the whims and fantasies, an idealistic vision of what a lover would. Many people believe that they can hold their partners and make them stay. But this is not true. If a partner wants to go, they will. Lovers are not inanimate object- they are people with free will and have their dreams and ideals.
What you can do is understand that everyone wants their own happiness. Sometimes it can be with you, sometimes it can be. And if you still have to deal with this person, the best thing you can do is give them the opportunity to follow their dreams. Beautifully step aside and wish them good luck. The right partner comes to you one day.
Mr Y said he felt a sharp stabbing pain in his heart when he discovered that the woman he loved has recently taken a boyfriend. I said: I understand that the sensation of severe pain. Anyone who was on the verge of losing a romantic partner has felt this sharp stabbing pain. If you do not, then you do not love with all your heart.
The more you love a person, the more you care about him/her. The feeling of being stabbed in the heart when they betray or mislead your love is normal. Although the normal reaction to being dumped is to go ballistic and tell your lover what piece of crap they are, your heart feels like a knife has cut through it. This heart-not because the pain is buried under his anger, the love is there.
