subject: Is Idealistic Relationship Good? [print this page] Some people are more idealistic than othersSome people are more idealistic than others. They have a vision in their minds of how they want their ideal partner to be- and they will not compromise. Usually in life, the partners we end up with do not meet our original criteria. Maybe she doesn't have the perfect figure or maybe he's not exactly Prince Charming. But in the end we still choose this person. Why so? It's because our criteria have changed. By living long enough, you see different kinds of people. And you will start editing your criteria of what you want in a partner, circling those qualities which are important, and mentally scratching out those which are not. So if a person has a list of rigid, uncompromising qualities that they follow to the dot, they might just kick out the partner that was right for them.
If it were so easy to make a lasting relationship, our divorce rate could be lower. Even if people do not fall into the traps, there are other problems such as the opportunity to meet someone more interesting (high risk). What should you do in these cases? Here is a principle that will guide:
"A great love relationship is not something you find, but something you build and commit yourself to."
There are tons of beautiful people in the world and many who are more physically attractive than your partner. For some people, the grass is always greener on the other side. So what are they? Jump into the neighbor's lawn? But the grass is not green anymore because it seems so with the weeds of the personality of the person. But it looks like a green lawn next door, and you jump again! They make their partner breaks, meetings and exchange in search of green grass, but they will not find in a great relationship.
Just like a beautiful garden, it generally requires treatment. You can have happily ever after with the partner you choose, but you must agree with him. Without a compromise, nothing lasts.
To keep the love, two people have to choose between them. If the breach or the couple is not secure, while the relationship crumbles. No matter how much you love the other person, if not return the love. It reminds me of the Chinese drama series where they like to say, you can not force love. And time will take the time to claim the head and yell, Look, why? Then, he has no choice but to drown his sorrows in alcohol, and perhaps shot down by a truck. So the girl will visit in the hospital, where his last breath, breath his last words of eternal love then he dies.
