subject: How To Approach Women - Mindset Is Everything [print this page] When you take a look at people that are successful in just about anything in life, it is their MINDSET that usually plays the biggest role in their success. When it comes to approaching women, this is especially true. Guys that have no problems at all approaching a woman have a much different state of mind than men that DO have trouble making the approach.
Your mindset is going to control and influence your behaviors and your actions. And if you are coming from a mindset where you assume that it is hard or that you are going to get rejected by a woman, then that is exactly what you are going to get.
So, you have to CHANGE your mindset if you want to start getting different results.
VIBES CAN DEFEAT YOU...
What are vibes, really? Well, when people describe a vibe that they get, it's really a way of describing a feeling. If you have the wrong mindset when approaching women, then you are going to give off the wrong vibe. And if a woman picks up on this (and she will), her impression of you is not going to be in alignment with what she needs to feel to find herself attracted to YOU.
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
You have to start to get yourself to have a paradigm shift where you begin to realize that approaching a woman is not really a big deal at all. And to make that paradigm shift really take hold, you need to have some experiences, some evidence that backs that up.
Start approaching women that don't intimidate you at all, and just get comfortable with doing this. Then, slowly work your way up to approaching more and more attractive women. What you will likely find, is that all of those things that held you back from approaching a woman, really were just inaccurate perceptions or beliefs that you had.
