subject: When Dating Becomes A Drag [print this page] The world of dating should be a way for you to connect, relate to, and unite with others in a way that inspires you and gives you a certain hope for the future. Even when we have a bad date it is all about perspective and creating a certain comical genius about the situation. The ups and downs of dating are not abnormal; it comes with the territory. There are times when you are completely encased with the joy and anticipation of the next date and other times you may feel like you just need a night off from the run-around. All-in-all the general consensus of dating is random and there is an air of uncertainty and adventure to it.
For the 20-something women the sort of what-comes-next? vibe that comes from dating can be an absolute enjoyment. 30 & 40-something vixens are a step into their hot-and-bothered stage, some have been wed and removed; others are on the prowl and unwavering in their attempt. If the idea of dating is fresh on your mind or you are re-entering the scene after years of marriage, no matter the reason or cause, you are one of lucky ladies who still enjoys the pursuit. It is no surprise that many women are to a point where dating-stagnation has taken hold. Maybe its the wrong-place-wrong-time syndrome, maybe it feels like all of the good ones?are already taken, maybe you are freshly-divorced and just arent feeling it? it doesnt matter why you are in the slump all you know is that the slump bites.
There is nothing more frustrating than devoting such a grand portion of your time to dating, and not getting results that match your effort. You have tried, but nothing is happening the way you expected it to. All you really know is that this slump has to go. There are many ways to clear the air and regain that spark. Besides, how can you expect to look up Mr. Right when you are feeling down? The only way to renew your faith in dating and to revamp your purpose is to find ways to regain hope in yourself, your search, and your life. Pin-point the things that make you tick, the things that make you smile, and do that! You must spend time with, and nurture, yourself in order to have a sense of peace in finding Mr. Right.
