subject: Guaranteed Break Up Survival for the Newly Single Man in Pain [print this page] Author: TW Jackson Author: TW Jackson
If you're a man in pain you're probably looking for some guaranteed break up survival advice to follow. The bad news is that there isn't one thing that works perfectly for everyone. The good news is that there are several good things you can try to do that are likely to work for you. Men deal with heartache and heart break a little differently than women. You don't wear your heart on your sleeves but you do love deeply and you can be just as crushed when the relationship ends. This is especially true if it wasn't your decision to call things off. What can you do to move on without her and pick up the pieces of what's left of your heart? Get Rid of all her Things Don't use this as a last ditch effort to see her again. Box her things up and give them to someone you know will get them to her. This accomplishes two things. It gives you both a sense of closure and the chance for it to really sink in that this is the end. Second, it removes those painful reminders from your sight and your home. This is your place of refuge from the world. You don't need to be confronted by things that cause you pain. Put Your Thoughts in Writing Whatever you do, don't send this to her. But, it helps a lot to write down your thoughts in order to really work through the pain and anger you're feeling right now. Want to take it one step further? Burn the paper once you've let it all out. This is a symbolic way of sending those bad and negative thoughts up in smoke so you can focus on more productive and positive thoughts for your future. Avoid Her Like the Plague It's tempting to make excuses to see her again. Don't do it. Don't even think about it just to make sure she's OK. Give her what she wants right now: time without you in her life. More importantly you want be tempted to beg, plead, or bargain with her to take you back. It's hard to resist this level of temptation so don't put yourself in a position to experience it. Enjoy the Single Life It's time to take a little while to enjoy being single again. There are benefits to being part of a couple but there are also quite a few reasons to enjoy the single life as well. Go out with friends, enjoy weekend poker tournaments in home, and wear the same shirt all weekend. Live life on your terms for a little while and enjoy it. These are all guaranteed break up survival steps that may not heal your broken heart but will help you face the world on your own once and for all.About the Author:
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