subject: Tips In Presenting Yourself As A Well Rounded Dating Candidate [print this page] Online dating can be a good start for you, because it usually provides a place for you to show all of his great physical attributes and interests out and present a more rounded dating candidate. Then those who are very interested in this, read below. And those who are interested in the interests of others, also read.
Since Dating and Relationships are such a large, important part of everyday life, this article strives to help clear up myths from facts and present an overview of surrounding issues.
Show Off- If you have a great body you're trying to show off and young physical appearance, yet worry because you still seem to have difficulty finding dates and establishing relationships, here are some pointers. Turn off the "ME" focus. Others tend to see that as boorish and think you only care about yourself, not others and certainly not them. Instead, turn the focus on outside interests that the other person can relate to, even if it has to be the weather.
Sit, Don't Take a Stand- Instead of voicing your opinions over issues that you pretty well know, because heated arguments, don't take a stand. Just sit them out. There's no shame in passing up an argument. For example, if you both call yourselves "Christians," yet one of you firmly has a complete set of rules and regulations about what a "Christian" really is, and doesn't hesitate to voice this, skip over conversations about religion. If you have to, simply say something along the lines of, "This gets us too heated, so let's pass on if for now and move on to something else." Agree that it's okay to disagree. Because it is!
Negotiator - Forget "his" and "hers" roles and who "should" do what, when. Learn to negotiate. What works one day may not work another when timing is off, kids are on the run and disaster strikes, for instance, when your mother-in-law drops by unexpectedly.
Traditions- Keep up with some old traditions from each family. Alter some; create new ones. The main thing here is to make positive memories that you can share and relive over and over, especially during rough spots when you can't remember why you are together. Traditions can be like glue and bind you with a common past.
Love and Hate- Love your partner, it is OK to strongly dislike (or "maybe" hate) a behavior, like cracking knuckles or biting nails. But remember to love the person.
Sex Vs Love- Sex and love is not the same thing. Learn the difference and don't measure love by your hormones.
