subject: Knowing The Requirements In Having A Good Relationship [print this page] Are you looking for a boyfriend / girlfriend? Have you been alone for a while? Do you have someone in mind who you want to go on a date with? Some years ago I thought I knew what my ideal partner or girlfriend would look and be like. However, I was learning a valuable lesson that is why I wrote this article.
I am short for a male and always prefer to date females who are smaller than I am. This however counts plenty of them out. I also like females who are very down to earth and who are relaxed about life, not in to themselves for example. I also prefer them to be brunette with a pleasant smirk and beautiful eyes, a slim figure would even be a bonus.
What I have described is what I believed to be my ideal girlfriend. This whole notion was blown out of the water around ten years when I had to work on a project at work with a woman called Sam. They was about ten years older than I was and I will always keep in mind what my first impressions of her were. What a mess, I thought. They had made no hard work together with her appearance, had not even brushed her hair it appeared, they dressed as if they was twenty years older than they actually was and fundamentally looked like they had not slept the night before.
This may appear cruel and harsh; this is what I was like back then, I am ashamed to think about how my mind used to work. I am happy however that I have now changed to be what I hope is a nicer person.
I think that is being written about what you ought to do and what you ought to not in dating. Let me ask you another query - whether you deserve the best partner available out there? Is your answer is in yes, or are you getting terrified with the thought? In the event you are a man, do you not think that you deserve to get the most beautiful, smart and loving lady? And in the event you are a woman, do not you think that you deserve a prince and nothing less than a prince?
Not plenty of of us think of this at all. They have all developed habit of satisfying ourselves with our low self-esteem and low desires. They dare not think of what I said earlier. Why not? Do you not think that you are lovely? Are you not the best? Regrettably most of us do not think that they are the best.
What stops us from thinking that they are the best? Funds, physical beauty, character, intelligence and reputation in society are some of the factors that make us think that they are not the best. When they look around, they find people better than us in all these departments and that dampens our spirit. This is where all of us make a mistake. Not plenty of people have all the qualities combined. And think me, which it is your idea that the best person out there is looking for someone with plenty of funds, beauty and intelligence. You may be surprised to know that they may be looking for someone like you.
The first requirement is to cease calling yourselves average. The second requirement is to make improvements wherever feasible. And the most important requirement is to alter our thinking and start believing that they deserve the best person out there. do what I have suggested. You may receive a pleasant surprise.
