subject: Is There Something Wrong With Me? [print this page] If you're one of the many women asking questions along the lines of "can I give my cheating ex husband a second chance?" now is the time to stop asking others and do a little deep soul searching. This is a question that only you can answer. You know yourself and your ex husband better than anyone else in the world.
Well, you can only agree or disagree with his appeal. Nothing is really written in stone. Do you still love him? Most wives still love their husbands even after the cheating issues. A good question to ask to determine whether or not you should give your cheating ex husband a second chance is 'Will he do the same for me?'
Is it Worth Giving My Cheating Ex Another Chance?
If you ask he is worth your time? Yes. If you are afraid and muddled up with the consequences of giving him a second chance then you are in. It is normal to feel anxious when one is taking risk. Anyway, who doesn't feel apprehensive and nervous? This is marriage that we are talking about and not just any ordinary risk taking that sociopaths do.
However, in accepting second chances one must to prove their sincerity in keeping their promise not to cheat again. And as the one, who was cheated on and is willing to give a second chance, don't be too emotional when he comes back to your life or you may end up ignoring the issues that you have to solve first.
Is it the only crime? Is he worth for a second chance? Only you can determine whether or not he is worth the second chance. His cheating might have made you wary, but there are a bunch of reasons why a second chance is worth granting to a cheating ex husband.
Taking the Risk
Put in another way, 'Are you willing to risk your heart for that second chance? Do you think giving him a break will make everything okay?' Or do you believe that he is sincere enough to be willing to face the consequences of his decision? There is no point in reading this part if you don't believe in his capability to be loyal and honest this time.
Well, there are no guarantees that he will be. What you can do is to first believe that this second chance will turn out well. The risk may be too big, but you'll never know what is in store for you, if you don't risk. Anyway, both of you deserve to live a happy married life. Marriages never go on without having to face problems just like this. The greatest test a relationship may have is the test of honesty. Choosing to give and break up may not give you the necessary shield to fight another marital issue that will probably occur in the future.
