subject: Win Your Marriage Back After Cheating - The Three Musketeers [print this page] After being caught cheating, you will probably think that your life is doomed forever. There is no chance of redemption. You should know that there are a lot of things that will shake your marriage, not only cheating. So bear in mind that even if you were caught cheating, chances are, you can still have your marriage back again. Here are the Three Musketeers of Cheating:
Lesson 1: The Good News
The good news about your case is that your partner can't just stop loving you at the snap of the finger even though you've cheated on her. This is good news for you because as long as she still loves you, there is still a chance of saving the marriage despite what happened.
The Bad
Bad news is that after the hurt and the pain you have caused her, you can't expect your partner to welcome you with loving arms; she might even welcome you with flying dishes when you come home. She will need a little space and time to put things in order and compose herself. After all the pain and hurt you've caused her, she needs a little time alone.
The Ugly
Accept the ugly truth that cheating on your partner is a very serious offense in your married life. Despite the strong love you feel for each other, there is still a chance that cheating on your partner maybe too hard to handle in the end.
Hmmm, don't lose hope
After learning the ugly truth, don't lose hope. This is the perfect time you engage yourself in a fight, a fight to save your precious marriage. Now, prepare your best-ever strategy and be ready for a good fight.
The fact is that you, the cheating partner, is in the state of grief. You want to make up for your partner, you are in pain as well, you want to make things right and go home. You will do all the best you can to win back your partner and save your marriage.
Now, on the other corner is the cheated spouse who is hurt so deeply and is afraid to trust again. She will not let the cheating partner win this game, after the hurt he had caused her.
Ding. Ding. Ding.
Are you ready to get in there and fight to save your marriage? That is just what it's going to take at a time like this. You're going to have to dig down deep and muster up a sincere apology and then you're going to have to find a way to clear the air between the two of you so you can get back in the business of making your marriage work.
