subject: Four Simple But Very Effective Steps To Winning Your Ex Back Instantly! [print this page] You may feel completely devastated at this new reality in your life. Your ex has walked out and you may believe all hope is lost! Break-ups and separations happen for a variety of reasons. This does not necessarily mean your ex does not love you anymore. Winning your ex back is still possible.
Here are four steps to helping you and your ex find happiness together again:
1. BE GRACEFUL
While it is difficult, accept the reality of your break-up. Your ex has their reasons. Be as charming and as graceful as ever, when you bid your good-byes. Accept the fact that your ex has his or her reasons and that should be reason enough for you to accept this separation. While this is a difficult step, the way you conduct yourself now, will go a very long way in healing the relationship!
2. PROVIDE AMPLE SPACE
Allow your ex some space to realize their life without you now. Respect that your ex needs this time to pull him or herself back together and decide their next move. This will also provide you the opportunity to decide how and where the relationship ended up on such rocky shores. You will also benefit from this opportunity to assess the relationship and what went wrong.
3. PUMP UP THE CHARM
Now that you have added time on your hands, take this opportunity to renew and refresh yourself! Remember those aspects that made your ex fall for you to begin with. This is a good beginning to reviving all the things he or she loves about you! Dress brilliantly! Wear clothes in which you expect to meet your ex and thrill him or her again with your charming abilities!
4. HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY
While you are working on you, take care not to shed all the blame for what has happened on your ex. You were just as involved as he or she is, which makes you at least half responsible for what went wrong! In assessing yourself and your relationship don't be shy in being honest and real with yourself. Your ex will certainly appreciate the fact that you do not wholly blame him or her for the break-up.
You may be pleasantly surprised at the changes in yourself. And so will your ex! You will have the opportunity to win your way back to your ex's side! When you take the opportunity to work on you, you won't regret your invested time and energy! And neither will your former ex!
