subject: How To Win Her Back After A Breakup - What You Need To Do Right After She Leaves You [print this page] In the moments right after a breakup with your girlfriend, you are either going to do something that will hurt your chances of getting her back, OR, help them out. Of course, you don't wan to be the reason why things get worse, so you need to know what to do RIGHT AFTER the breakup, so that you make it easy to get her back.
The most important thing that you can do is to...avoid all contact with her while you still feel all of the anger and the hurt.
Why?
Because in those moments, those heated and passionate moments, I can pretty much guarantee that you will NOT say anything that is going to help you out. You can't really, not when the break is fresh in your mind and it has a really big impact on you.
Those moments are going to be the ones that end up coming back to bite you in the rear. You will end up saying things that you do not mean, things that you know are going to hurt her, and that is not going to make it easy to get her back.
If you think that she is going to come back to you just because she sees how hurt you are, or because you try to make her feel bad about breaking up with you, then boy, are you in for a rude awakening.
To get your girlfriend back, you need to have emotional control...
If you don't have control over your emotions, then you might as well kiss her goodbye for the long haul. You have to be able to make her see YOU as the kind of man that she would be a fool to leave, but that will only happen IF you are in control of your emotions right after the breakup.
