subject: Your alternatives to get over a breakup [print this page] Author: Sue Best Author: Sue Best
You have to work out how you can either proceed to get over a breakup or to get back together with dignity and positivity for your future together.
However, currently, you should not be making the following slips. Crying along with sad songs or "your" old songs on the radio Starving yourself or over eating Humiliating yourself by dialling your ex and his or her buddies several times a day to attempt to keep contact Relentlessly checking your messages for calls from your ex Thinking non- stop about the reason why they really left and what you should have said to make it better Tirelessly rehearsing what you are going to say if you bump into them Not surprisingly, none of this junk will assist you either move on or move back again to an awesome relationship.
It is advisable to be feeling less and thinking more, more logically, that is and you should make a plan either for reconcilliation or to get over a breakup for good.
As well as this logical plan, you need to commence living for yourself. You are a good person and you deserve to be treated well. No one else is going to treat you properly until you do that for yourself. Easy to say, but a habit that you have to make the big effort to get into.
Only then will you be robust and content in all your existing and future relationships.About the Author:
Sue Best can guide you further at IGetMyExBoyfriendBack. Visit her weblog for further facts and suggestions about ex boyfriends, girlfriends and spouses.