subject: How do I get my exboyfriend back [print this page] Author: Sue Best Author: Sue Best
You could be behaving in precisely the wrong way to get your ex back without even realizing what you're doing wrong. It's irritating, but you need to change what you're doing to make your dreams come true.
Don't keep calling him- this stinks of desperation. Don't text, don't email, don't beg.
This is what you should do alternatively:
Take a step back and access a completely fresh and rather scarey approach(that will, incidentally, do you the world of good) .
Don't speak to him. That's right. And while you aren't contacting him, start looking to yourself- how are you able to make your life better(aside from getting back together) , do the stuff you like and look after you.
While you aren't contacting your ex boyfriend, he's going to be thinking, "what's she up to? "- he'll start to get out of his comfort zone and get curious and more interested in you and what you're doing.
This won't happen if you're calling on him a bunch of times a day. Play it differently. Believe in me, I acknowledge this is really arduous for you to do, but if you don't crack the old bad habits, you can't anticipate different results.
Manipulate human nature, don't work in opposition to it and don't be the painless person who plays along to the tune dictated by your ex.
Should you be rather more mysterious, your ex boyfriend is much more likely to be thinking of you and examining his past happy feelings about the good things in your dormant relationship.
Just stick to your guns and do this; it gets easier over time. Stop wondering "What must I do to get my ex boyfriend back" and commence making him do the running.
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