subject: How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back [print this page] Author: Sue Best Author: Sue Best
Do you think you're becoming a desperado? Have you been doing your currently poor relationship untold damage by incessantly calling, pleading, demanding, sulking, pestering. . . need I go on.
What you are currently doing isn't working as a way of attracting your ex girlfriend back. Doing more of the same is not going to get you what you are after.
May I suggest that you have employed close to zero real planned method, but basically acted in an emotional, rather than thoughtful way?
That's the root of your dilemma, right there. And you need to fix it now while there's still time. It is tough love, but if you don't see the error of your ways, you are never going to get your ex girlfriend back.
You will need a plan. You can't go about this half baked and having to win at all costs, because you know within your heart of hearts that you won't ever get what you are after if you don't work out a logical way of getting there.
So, stop the feeling, as difficult as that is and start on the thinking.
Trust me, it does get easier the more you practice it.
Stop calling your ex and getting emotional. That will only make your ex more uncomfortable about you and make you feel even worse cause you are not getting the result you are after.
Start spending much more time caring for yourself. Because unless there is a great relationship within yourself, your external relationships will not be going to be ideal either.
Once you've given yourself a little breathing space and been kind to yourself, then start thinking about what you need to do to get that link with your ex girlfriend back to what it ought to be.About the Author:
Sue Best can guide you further at IGetMyExBoyfriendBack. Visit her weblog for further facts and suggestions about ex boyfriends, ex girlfriends and spouses.
