subject: Identify The Level Of Relationships & How To Handle Disappointments Properly [print this page] There are many levels of relationshipsThere are many levels of relationships. Some of us are put into situations that have a lot of courage to see beyond our wounds and disappointments. Just remember what brought your relationship together in the beginning. Many times we will have to go back to page one and start from there. With mind and heart open-minded, we can spend a lot of mistakes and problems that arise in a relationship.
If a couple is not well understood, and you understand that, then you are responsible for detaining and work with them in a loving way to get that door open. It is vital to not assume anything until the other person has completely finished.
Therefore, the power of writing is so productive. One person writes his thoughts down, uninterrupted, without fear of being derailed from his thoughts and the ability to just get the entire breast, so to speak. People pay big money to be told exactly this, so listen up! If you find that your wall of communication breakdown is starting to build, then this habit of writing letters to others is a great way to bypass the wall.
Ever feel like you're so far under that wall that will never be able to communicate with your partner again and just want to run? Before fleeing, think exactly what, and why is escaping. Are you running a couple that could well be the best thing that has happened to you? Or are you in fact fleeing your own problems that refuse to treat? Remember this, if it is your own demons that fear, that will run forever. You will never be happy. Usually blame their relationship or their partner for their falls. Running away is a cop out. It's a real weakness. To stay and fight and trust that your partner understands your problems is a true sign of courage and one that is well respected.
We all have our past. We must understand that yes, it was well and that is what they are, the above numbers. To have your past continue to come between you and your partner is a bad thing. This is where good communication comes to the rescue once again. When we are aware of certain issues in our partner's past, sometimes makes them easier to understand and cope with if they happen to come again. If we stay in the dark and have to meet another of the past and is not a very good experience, we will be weak on defense and our ability to communicate positively will be almost nonexistent.
Some people fear their partner's past and sees in them a threat to their own relationship. This is normal and should be treated through love and understanding. Once again we must communicate with each other and not belittle anyone for their honesty and true fears.
That wall of communication breakdown will never come down completely if we skip a few blocks away and ignore them or manipulate them so badly that double in size. A good strong relationship will endure almost any error committed by humans as long as both partners are willing and honest with others.
