subject: Attraction- Why She Or He Is Not Attracted To You [print this page] If it appears that you have been trying to make friends, but other people do not want to be your friend, you may have concluded that there is something wrong with you. That maybe you are basically unfriendly.
Many of us go through the torment of doubt as I do, especially during our teenage years, when teens are often victims of vicious bullying from their peers for no reason at all.
People who have a poor self image can be surrounded by other people who like, care about them and enjoy their company, however, because they do not believe they are worthy of being loved, are convinced that nobody else wants it.
Therefore, if you feel like nobody loves you, check to see if there is any real evidence that others do not like, or if you are just being very negative in their view of yourself.
It is also important to have good, hard look at itself and the way they interact with others. There may be specific behaviors that are causing others to not like, and these are the behaviors that can change.
Ask yourself the questions in this checklist. If it appears that some of these behaviors are a problem for you, chances are that if you change this behavior, other people will like better.
1. Are you always very negative and complaining all the time? Most people find this very annoying habit.
2. Do you participate actively in conversations with others? Or do you stop and let others do all the work in making conversation. If so, learn to improve your conversational skills to talk to you is an experience that others aspire to.
3. Do you endlessly talk about yourself and show little interest in the people speaking? Other people get bored with you very quickly if you seem only interested in yourself.
4. Do you try very hard to please others, always agree with everything they say, and not having any opinion of your own? People do not respect you if you do not respect.
5. Do you often say things that hurt the feelings of others and then say it was just a joke? You say that things behind the backs of others? Nobody will trust you if they think they are basically a cruel person.
If you want to make other people your friends, it is very important not to give up trying. Keep people coming, keep trying to make conversation. Get rid of bad social habits if they are on the road of friendship.
If given a cold treatment for many of the people I encounter, especially at your school or workplace, keep looking other places for people you can trust and friendship. You can try in your church, your community, and
