subject: Some Bad Advice on How to Date Girls [print this page] It is my hope that by giving some "bad advice" on how to date girls, men will wise up and see their mistakes first hand. It's much easier to learn yourself by criticizing someone else, isn't it? Let's consider some bad advice on how to date girls. Now examine these "scenarios" and ask yourself, if perhaps you have made similar mistakes in learning how to date girls.
1. For starters, play it very safely. Be a perfect "gentleman" and never express your interest. Why risk rejection if you don't have to? Why tell the woman what you want? It's a far better idea to play a subtle game for a few years and then hope she comes right out and says she wants to sleep with you. Treat her like a saint. Become her own personal doormat all in the name of love.
2. Be a jerk. Women all love it when guys abuse them emotionally. They are attracted to brats, thugs, cheapskates, arrogant snobs, violent men, sulkers, stalkers, screamers, big babies and cheaters. After all, if being a nice guy has failed you the only logical thing to do is to do a total 360, right?
3. Lie about whatever shortcomings you have. The first rule to learn in how to date girls is that you don't deserve someone this hot. So you might as well lie, and maybe accidentally fall into a relationship.
All right, now let's examine some of these mistaken attitudes. Men who think they are "nice" or who purposely avoid asking a woman out are losing the game bad. They are at great risk of being relegated to the role of friend forever. The second guy is going about his strategy on how to date girls all wrong. Just because a woman is bored of "nice" doesn't mean she wants to be abused and treated like garbage! The last guy is just pathetic all around.
Plenty of eligible bachelors make these common mistakes. They go mad trying to figure out what women want, never quite getting the point that a woman wants a man to be himself. To be naturally funny, entertaining and self-confident. If you are capable of dropping the "act" and being yourself, you will have a much more successful love life.
If you would like to learn more about how to date girls then try looking at dating objectively. Stop putting your girl on a pedestal and cutting yourself down. Gain a healthy perspective of romance and your own identity. Only then will you be ready to find the girl of your dreams!
