subject: A Little Humor Goes A Long Way [print this page] So I have been talking to people and studying the initial emails and responses that some of my students give as well as what I write to girls. One thing that is common to all of the successful emails that get a good response from a woman is the inclusion of humor.
When I did my experiment as an undercover dating coach masquerading as a beautiful woman (see my What MOST Guys (and Girls) Do (and Do WRONG) in Online Dating article on that) I saw that many guys that we would think would attract women (looks, good job) would send the same kinds of messages and come off as alike and BORING. Now I"m no Einstein but I don"t think coming off as boring as everyone else is going to help you much if you are trying to ATTRACT that beautiful girl.
The KEY thing that I do (and everyone else that is successful at online dating for that matter) is to include a bit of humor in the first email. I like to think of the first email as a professional advertisement: The goal is to ATTRACT the reader"s attention, hook them, reel them in, and cause them to want to BUY the product. In a sea of boring alike emails the best way to do that is to get her to laugh. I don"t think it is too much of a stretch to say that causing someone to laugh is ATTRACTIVE. I mean, who doesn"t want to laugh? I know that I sure do!
Why does it work? Well, first of all you are separating yourself from the masses that will email her similar things and bore her to tears. Saying, "Hey, what"s up, cutie?" is not a great call to action in professional advertising or in internet dating. Secondly, many scientific studies have shown that a great sense of humor is one of the TOP QUALITIES that ATTRACT women. You just hit her with your wooden club called "wit" you caveman stud-muffin you! Thirdly, most guys will TELL her that they are funny. You, on the other hand, will SHOW her that you are funny. It is often said that "seeing is believing." You can either tell her that you are funny, or show her proof from the get-go. Finally, it just works. The bottom line is that when you include your sense of humor when emailing women you will have MUCH better results!
So if you are now curious as to what kinds of funny things to send to a woman to ATTRACT her NOW, then do yourself a favor and signup for my newsletter at www.webwomanizer.com where you will get a FREE ten page handbook and 15 minute video giving you the basic guidelines for constructing humorous emails to attract the woman of your dreams. Also, STAY TUNED for future products that will help take your online wit to the NEXT LEVEL so you can ATTRACT the women of your dreams with little effort. As always, keep womanizing.
