subject: How To Get Your Ex Back, Even If They Left You For Somebody Else [print this page] It was bad enough to get dumpedIt was bad enough to get dumped. Then to add insult to injury, you found out that you were left for another! You feel like there is no way to ever get your ex back now. But this is not usually the case. Now is the time plan a little more thoughtfully.
First, a new relationship that starts right at the end of an older one is referred to as a "rebound" relationship. Experts agree that these are the most unstable and usually unsatisfying love affairs. They are an attempt to replace what has gone sour. But luckily, for those of us who have been on the "dumped" side of the fence, the new love nearly always falls short of the mark. So in the meantime, what do you do?
If you are interested in getting your ex back, you need to give them the space they need to dig their own hole with their new interest. Since this is an insecure time for your ex, they are likely to stay in touch, just in case. How insulting is that?! Are you a little mouse waiting for some crumbs to drop?! Now is the time to take a positive action.
If you want to get your ex back you must make a better foundation. Move on. Make a good life for yourself. This is the most important moment in your entire relationship. What you do now will determine how your lives together will go.
It seems impossible, but forget about your ex for awhile. Take time to improve yourself. Start working out and get in shape! Date a little, just casually, for company. Your self-esteem could use a boost and it will show, too! As your ex's new relationship crumbles, your increased attractiveness will really catch their attention! When you have proven to yourself and to them that you have individual worth, it will be a good time to get your ex back.
