subject: My Wife Is Cheating - Is It All About Sex? [print this page] Google cheating and you will find thousands of topics related to it. One most discussed is the ancient question "Why?" Reasons vary from behavioral, emotional to sexual needs. Some women believed that they must have a doctorate degree in sex to make their husbands stay while on the other hand, men think that they have to have a high paying job to satisfy their wives.
Women's view on Sex and Cheating
Men and women have different views on sex. Men can make love with or without any emotional attachment. Women on the other hand do out of love and physical attachment.
Whatever is a husband's reason of his frustration, every husband should know that their wives have needs and closing their eyes on these needs might eventually lead to her looking for it outside the marriage.
You might have thought of other reasons than this one, but don't put her in a box having the same reasons as men would have done when tempted to cheat.
Main Reason Behind Women Cheaters
Psychology will tell you that women cheat as a sign of a "desperate plea for help and a catalyst for change." But the society still believes to the old myth that the affair is about sex.
But of course, there is that creepy fear hiding behind your tongue afraid that asking her might scare her away. Read through and discover the common reasons why women cheat on their husbands.
She feels lonely.
Neglected Unappreciated
She is lonely.
Feels not important to her husband.
She is being appreciated by someones else.
The other man appreciated her.
The other man makes her feel wanted.
She feels desirable because of him.
He appreciates what she brings to the equation.
Women can agree to experts if they say sex is better at home than with the other man. Moreover, suffering in silence, unfulfilled needs, frustrations or disappointments can kill sexual desires which may lead to sex problems in terms of quantity but not in quality.
Making a U-turn
If you think it's not too late yet, make a U-turn and figure out how to get the relationship right back on track. There are a lot of things that you can do to get her back. By getting to the bottom line of it all, you'll know how to definitely end her cheating.
Here's what you need to do to win back her heart and make her ultimately come home.
Stop comparing her to your mother.
Appreciate her deeds. Compliment her actions.
Say "thank you."
Admit that you are wrong if you are really wrong.
Stop fighting to win but fight to save the marriage.
