subject: Witty Pickup Lines - What does it take to seduce a woman in a bar [print this page] Author: takis theodore Author: takis theodore
Pick up lines have turned something into a myth these days. Here are some of the good ways to do this.
- "Hey, you look like the sex and the city girls !", a group observation is always meant to make a girl happy about it.
- Look at the color she is wearing and tell her. "[Your color] is the new [Her color]. Did you know about it ?". This is meant as a fun opener and not to be taken so seriously.
- Be direct and then throw some form of negatve compliment on her. "You are the devil. I've been sitting here and I was about to leave, and now you arrive. Arrrr".
The importance on approaching a woman does not lie on what you say but on how you say it.
You need to come with an air of self confidence and with a positive vibe. Your aura during the approach is crucial as women decide whether they like you or not during the first 30 seconds.
This, however, comes with practice, and you will need several approaches until you get it right.
One important rule during approach is this:
"What you feel, she feels".
If you arrive all stressed up and being in your head in contrast to be happy and social, she will not like you.
Then as a last word avoid any opener that seeks validation: "Can I pay you a drink", that seeks comfort:" What is your name", and that makes you a tourist: "Do you know any good bars". If you want to learn more on this type of approaches, go where I've learned these all.
