subject: Win Him Back Destroy His Relationship With The Other Woman [print this page] Do you dream of winning your boyfriend back and stealing him back from another woman? Did another woman steal your man and all you can think of is how to win him back? Winning him back can be very easy but it does take some tact, careful planning and the right mindset.
Tact If you think that youre just going to seduce your boyfriend and win him back you might be in for a bit of a disappointment. Chances are your boyfriend is looking for this and his defenses are up if he is expecting you to try to win him back. If you have spent a lot of time trying to convince him to leave his new girlfriend and come back to you or if you have been desperately tried to stay in touch with him by bombarding him with phone calls and text messages he is going to know that something is up.
Have a little tact and let the dust settle before you put your plan into action. It may be tough to sit and do nothing for a few days or weeks but give your ex some time to wonder what is going on as he waits for the other shoe to drop. Chances are your recent involvement in his life, by trying to win him back honestly, has actually brought him and his new girlfriend closer. They will be focusing on you and your relationship instead of the problems that are going to crop up in their own relationship.
Mindset When the time does come for you to put your plan to win him back into action it is important to have the right mindset. It may be painful to talk with him or see him when he is with someone else and his new girlfriend isnt going to make it easy. She might hang all over your man or kiss him in front of you but be strong and realize that she is only hurting herself. Your boyfriend will see this as being just mean and hateful while you appear to be trying to put everything behind you and remain friends.
Work on the mindset that is going to be necessary to win him back. Realize that this is short term pain for long term gain. It might hurt inside but try not to act on that pain in front of your ex. He knows you well enough and can read you well enough to know that it hurts but he will appreciate your maturity and how much you value his friendship and the relationship that you had and still have when he can sense that you are in pain yet you choose to swallow that pain and suffer in silence. This will bring about a feeling of empathy that will lead to loving feelings in him again that will make it easier for you to win him back.
Plan As you wait for some time to pass work on your plan to win him back. Visualize what it will be like to hold him again and have him love you again. Remember what it was like to kiss him and joke around with him and have him all to yourself. Now visualize how it will be to have him back in your life as a friend and how difficult it is going to be for him to be around you as a friend without being able to have you again because of his new girlfriend.
Plan out what you can say and what you can do to open that door and walk back into his life as a friend with the intention of winning him back. Can you see how he will eventually fall in love with you again especially after his new girlfriend throws a fit because he is talking to you? And all you want is to have your best friend back again as a friend. But before you execute this plan be sure that you have your game face on and that you have the proper mindset to be able to pull it off. Know what youre going to say and how youre going to act before you place yourself in that situation and before you know it he will be broken up with his new girlfriend and you will have the perfect opportunity to win him back.
