subject: Get Her Back Outrageous Strategies To Get Her Back [print this page] Are you desperate to get her back? Would you do just about anything to get your girlfriend or wife back? Are you searching for the quickest, most effective way to get her back? If you are searching for a way to get your love back be very careful about the advice that you take to heart. In reality, the most effective methods of getting back together with your girl are often the most simple and logical.
Your family and friends may have your best interest at heart but unless you have a therapist who has seen many couples through the often delicate process of mending a broken relationship they might not have the necessary experience to be able to tell you what works and what doesnt. On the opposite end of the spectrum, you might receive advice from friends that borders from outrageous to downright insane!
The Jealousy Card If you have thought of playing the jealousy card or someone has suggested that you try to make your ex jealous to get her back you should proceed with caution. While a little mystery might elude to a little suspicious jealousy in your ex, going out and picking up some floozy at a bar and flaunting it in your exs face could destroy the last chance that you have of getting your wife or girlfriend back.
The Waiting Game Others may have told you or you might have read somewhere that you should wait her out. Maybe you have heard of the no contact rule and you think that if you wait a month or so she will just come around and everything will be fine. Be careful with this one!
While it might be beneficial to give her a little time and space to sort through her feelings if you wait too long shes going to be gone. A month of no contact often sends a message that you just dont care and have accepted the end of the relationship. Four or more weeks of silence means that you have moved on or are prepared to move on
Romance Many someone has told you to write a heartfelt letter or send her flowers to try to get her back. Or maybe you have thought of completely humiliating yourself like in the movies and serenading her? The honest truth is that without some sort of dialog going on between the two of you these tactics not only wont help you to get her back but they will probably drive her further away.
Romantic gestures are great and often richly appreciated when your relationship is mending or when you are together but during a breakup they only come off as weak and needy plea for her to come back to you. It is just short of begging in her eyes and it will probably tick her off more than anything if you didnt make this sort of effort when you were together.
While all of these methods can be viewed as outrageous attempts to get her back the truth is that there are elements of each tactic that can be used in a more subtle way to help you to get your girlfriend back. A short note saying that it was nice to hear her voice once you begin talking again or making yourself just a little bit unavailable to arouse suspicion and a twinge of jealousy can be effective ways to create attraction and help you to get her back. But everything in moderation and in its own time should combine to bring the two of you together and create a new and better relationship than what you had together before. Take this advice to heart and think on it and it wont be long before you get your girlfriend back and end the misery of your breakup.
